Exchanging thoughts and a lot of heavy structuralist jargon talks. I wish I can have this kind of conversations everyday. Surround yourself with intellectual people. You will gain more knowledge and your view about life will change.
I believe that personality tests should be implemented in all organisations. It will help you discover careers and occupations most suitable for your personality type Companies especially the BPO Industries should offer this assessment for their employees to help avoid drastic attrition.
Manage yourself first!
Leverage emotional self awareness skills to recognize your reactions, thoughts and feelings regarding conflict the way it has been handled You ask yourself what can be done to get thorough it? what frustrates you about it? what is good about it? remember even though it may feel personal at times, the conflict is not often about you. Pay attention to how you feel and bring the focus back to the issue.
Myers Briggs type Indicator can help you determine how you are and could help you avoid conflict, manage your employees well, manage yourself well, train others, avoid misunderstandings around people and all other emotional obstacles that we face everyday.
You may check out their website: http://www.myersbriggs.org
I have taken the MBTI Assessment test and the result is that i am an ENFP! (stands for Extravert, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving) It rings a truth to it and it sounded more like me. ENFPs like to tell funny stories, especially about their friends. This penchant may be why many are attracted to journalism. ENFPs have what some call a “silly switch.” They can be intellectual, serious, all business for a while, but whenever they get the chance, they flip that switch and become CAPTAIN WILDCHILD, the scourge of the swimming pool, ticklers par excellence. Sometimes they may even appear intoxicated when the “switch” is flipped. How about you? what type of personality are you?
Check yours: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp